Our first date
If you are anything like me, you can get a little nervous before a first date. The fluttering of anxious butterflies inside… second guessing your outfit.. what drink to order!
So I’ve put together this guide to cover the basics of what to do to prepare for and enjoy on our first date. Understanding these tips will ensure we’re both hungry for a second serving…
Reaching Out
A polite, straightforward text message or email is the best way to catch my eye.
It might look something like this:
“Hi Tilly, my name is (John Smith) from (Melbourne/The World). I would like to see you on (1st Jan 2000) for (2 hours), (GFE or Pro-Submission) incall or outcall”
I will get back to you as quickly as I can, always asking for a small deposit to secure our time together. Safety is really important to me so I will always ask for a copy of your ID (Drivers License etc) or LinkedIn profile. All your information is stored securely and discreetly.
I am available for:
a passionate rendezvous (30 minutes-1.5 hours)
a date (2 hours)
breakfast, lunch and dinner dates (2 hours of dine, 2 hours of play)
extended dates, overnights and Fly Me To You (6+ hours)
accompanying you to play, swingers and kink parties
Some of my favourite things to do include: hiking, swimming, day spas, vintage shopping, perfume shopping, theatre and live performance, independent and arthouse cinema
Showing Up
I will send you a text message 1-2 hours with the location of our date. I ask that you turn up perfectly on time (not too early or late). But if Melbourne weather, traffic or usual chaos has you running behind - please let me know by text as soon as you can. I may or may not be able to accomodate latecomers depending on my schedule that day.
Now that you’re here and in the room, we have a few things to get out of the way. I ask all my lovers to shower and prepare themselves well after arriving. A good scrub all over your body, paying special attention to your intimate areas and your hands.
If it’s our first date together, we will have a conversation about your loves, desires and limits. You might love a kiss on the neck but loathe a nibble on your ear - this is good for me to know! I will share some of my favourite things with you too. you may want to spend the first half of our time together in conversation and getting to know each other, this is perfectly fine too. Consent is an ongoing conversation and negotiation between the two of us, it’s okay to change your mind or ask to try something else.
Coming back for more?
I love to build intimate connections that last the test of time. If you would like to see me again, please contact me via text or email with your preferred day, time and type of session. I welcome reflections of our time together on my Ivy Societe and Scarlet Blue profiles